The full output of the tankless coil requires about 200,000 btu's/hr. 4 teeth isn't going to cut it if that tub has a fast-fill fixture. A flow restrictor on the hot water feed to the tub would certainly be a cheap fix...but only if the Mrs. doesn't mind waiting
I vote for more teeth, less timer run time and higher low limit setting.
Dave, now that you have the draft figured out, have you tried reducing the timer duration? I run mine 1.5 minutes every 30, and it works great. If you can reduce the timer like Mike said, you can get away with a higher feed rate without overheating the boiler. For heavy hot water usage, I wouldn't run the low limit below 160 degrees...you might even want to try 170. You said the boiler currently idles around 180 degrees anyway, so the the higher low limit will just fire the stoker sooner during a hot water call.