You've All Come To The Right Place ! Everyone here has time for you. We've walked your path. Here,Real Men are allowed to cry like Children because of the Grief that's hard to put into words. Losing Unconditional Love,let alone The Family losing it,is hard stuff......Do the time.....Spend some time understanding why this hurts so damn much.....Then Honor it. When the time is right,you may just think of saving a Pup or a Cat from a miserable mess. They reflect what you've done for them,and what you've put in them. It's OK to be afraid or gunshy of Pain and Hurt. It sure as Hell 'aint OK to be afraid of Love.....Maybe I'm Nuts,but all my Pups and Cats from the past keep getting rolled right into the ones we've been Graced to have now. It's gonna be alright! Just a little Love from 'Ol Uncle Ham !