If this happened more, PERHAPS others would figure out what it takes to be secure in your own home. Sad because she squeezed the triggers, or sad she had to make that choice?
This is a girl who knows HOW to survive in her neck of the woods. She gets to live and her baby enjoys her mom....what is sad about that?
Cowboy up, buddy...it isn't Disney World out there! If that were your daughter just what would you have her do?