Sending and returning similar temperatures is simply circulating energy to no result. If you sent out 160 degree water and it came back at 160
daaaa -- The Water, didn't give up any of its energy to the load!
Slowing the flow allows the water time to release the energy is carry's - to the radiation - and into the dwelling = comfort
Releasing too much energy to the loop or/and returning water that is too cold is not right either and that is the most common bug I see in retrofitted systems.
Recently we have had a long thread that appears to be the opposite - a loop that will not flow enough and will not heat a space --
-- but thats another threadKind Regards
Sting