An open letter to parents

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An open letter to parents

PostBy: Rwalker On: Thu May 30, 2013 6:54 pm

Dear Parents,

I would like to take the time to personally thank each and every one of you for being uninvolved in your kid's lives. Every time one of them drives 100 miles an hour past my house, tries to rob the local jewelry store, or shoots up heroin in your basement while you Facebook, I get a big smile on my face. Every time one of them drops out of school I breath a sigh of relief. Every time you place more attention on your sad, pathetic lives rather then disciplining your child, I pump my fist. You see, your complete and total lack of parenting is keeping a pay check in my bank. Your focus on how you look, your Facebook friends, and your attempts to be "little Johnny's" friend keep food on my table and a roof over my head. You see deadbeat parent, you are J.O.B security. You are assuring that I will always have a job baby sitting the kids you couldn't "handle". Baby sitting the kids you never should have had.

I also have to thank you for providing my kids, and the kids of other responsible parents, with a wealth of opportunity. You see, your lazy child sucks in school, so they aren't competition for my kids when it comes to good colleges. Your lazy kids don't put the time and effort in to make themselves better physically, so my kids have the chance to excel on the sports field and possibly get scholarships and other chances your waste of air will never have. Of course, your kids will live off the government's dime, but since they are just taking up space, my kids can get the jobs that pay them well enough to not be too burdened by the taxes they pay.

So a big THANK YOU goes out to YOU, worthless, deadbeat, friend to your kids parent! Keep buying "little Johnny" those jacked up monster trucks and letting him have keg parties. You provide a service to this great nation!

8-)
Rwalker
 
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Re: An open letter to parents

PostBy: I'm On Fire On: Thu May 30, 2013 7:12 pm

Well said. I was eating lunch today at Moe's and this woman had her kid with her. He was climbing all over the furniture, running around, screaming, touching things he wasn't supposed to and all she would do is say in a quiet voice, 'Get down from there. Stop doing that.'

I scarfed down my lunch because I was getting pissed and as I was walking out the door I said to her, 'Get the *censored* up, go over and get your kid. Control him. Discipline him. Dammit!'
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Re: An open letter to parents

PostBy: franco b On: Thu May 30, 2013 7:38 pm

Rwalker wrote:So a big THANK YOU goes out to YOU, worthless, deadbeat, friend to your kids parent! Keep buying "little Johnny" those jacked up monster trucks and letting him have keg parties. You provide a service to this great nation!

At least it's not all bad news.
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Re: An open letter to parents

PostBy: mozz On: Thu May 30, 2013 8:22 pm

Ego much?
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Re: An open letter to parents

PostBy: Lightning On: Thu May 30, 2013 8:36 pm

Don't count yer chickens.....
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Re: An open letter to parents

PostBy: Rwalker On: Thu May 30, 2013 9:23 pm

Oh I plan on counting all 4 of them.

I am not worried in the least bit. My mom and dad raised 6 of us and we are all functioning adults with careers. The difference is, our home was not a democracy. Mom and dad were LAW and when we crossed that law we got our asses handed to us.

Not many parent like that today. Instead they allow the child to run the home, make the rules, and they buy them everything. Let me catch 1 of my kids speeding in their vehicles. They wont have a vehicle.

Kids need discipline and routine. I run a tight ship. I have zero worries.
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Re: An open letter to parents

PostBy: jpete On: Thu May 30, 2013 9:28 pm

Rwalker wrote: I have zero worries.


That worries me. :)
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Re: An open letter to parents

PostBy: carlherrnstein On: Fri May 31, 2013 11:05 am

I aggree with the open letter I have two daugthers 4 and 2. I dont let them act up and try to teach them as much as I feel they can handle but I still worry that they could end up being complete failures.
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Re: An open letter to parents

PostBy: anthony7812 On: Fri May 31, 2013 11:55 am

My grandfather ran a tight ship, one of his 4 children don't live off the system. Hell it's sad but I haven't seen my father (his son) in oh 10 years. Last I heard prison maybe. My .02$ is parent involvement, be thier and be involved. Be a hard ass when your kids are outta line and set rules that you are gonna enforce. I don't know what the hell people's problem is these days with raisen kids but its not goddamn rocket science. Big big rule in my book act like a damn respective individual around your children, they watch and learn.
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Re: An open letter to parents

PostBy: SMITTY On: Sat Jun 01, 2013 11:12 pm

Not having kids I feel I don't have much of a leg to stand on here .... but I can CLEARLY see a HUGE difference in the way young kids (single digit age) act out in public compared to when I was younger. There's been times where I saw kids just totally melting down, screaming bloody murder .... and I look at the mom and she's eating fries like nothing is happening. HO - LEEE - *censored* !!! :!:
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