Congratulations! You've just received the hardest lesson in Personal Sovereignty. Too Late Now.....Sooo,to me, I'd : 1.) STOP!.... 2.) Take a breath....Slow down..... 3.)Time to get "Tactical and Practical".... 4.) You're behind Enemy Lines,Act like it, Cease all highlighting of yourself by communicating with any of the listed Offending Authorites...Get Off The Radar Screen,even though it may be too late.... 5.) Find your Copy of that Offensive Association Master Agreement that came with your purchase in that Community. Also gather up any and all subsequent yearly Amendments to that Agreement,including this latest Whopper,and either go to your Attorney,or one that specializes in Land/Association tenets of Law. Get competent,actual advice.....6.)Make your decisions based on that Advice,Your Wife leaving You if You decide to get out of that ALGORE Yuppie Hellhole and move to your own Land with your own Governance,and the Great Possibility that you might take a huge financial hit if you decide to sell and move to where there is no"Ass-Ociation"....Just my hard-core opinions on Enclave's like this,and why to leave them....Good Luck,My Beleagured Friend. I Truly Wish You Well !