xandrew245x wrote:The savings defiantly would pay for the loan amount, but I can't get her to see that, she just sees it as another payment every month. Every year we will spend at least $2000 on heating oil, by the third year the boiler could be payed for already. I have a car that I'm trying to get rid of, she said if I can sell that I can get the boiler.
Pacowy wrote:Gotta keep the peace, I guess. It's ironic, though, because for many people the savings from getting a stoker boiler would be bigger than the loan payments. Put another way, adding the loan payment might well lead to lower total monthly expenses.
Mike
xandrew245x wrote:I'm about to just go take the loan out in my name and just go through with it, sure she might be mad for a while but I can then prove to her how much money we would be saving
KLook wrote:Careful!!! I don't want to take fire for breaking up a coal burning forum mate! Everyone works out the relationship differently and I am sure several old girlfriends would have kicked me to the curb long ago!Seriously though, the savings are there and it is hard to get people to realize something is to good to be true. They grew up with a thermostat and that is the way it is. My wife was like that, still thinks if I worked harder or smarter(better job, less freedom) I could just turn up the thermostat and send money to the Arabs. The art of negotiation = good marriage. Usually.
Kevin

SteveZee wrote:Mine is very similar Andrew, she's very intelligent so I have to use the same strategy she uses on me. It's that old steer them towards the direction you want and let them think it was their idea or they had equal input and then agree.Not so easy with Kim but she is smart enough to know that if I explain something in detail (that she's not interested in) I can finally wear her down (Read: bore to death) and it can happen.
It's a bit like her wanting plates or pottery or some decorating thing.
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